NRI divorce: in India, abroad, or both

Main laws

Hindu Marriage Act 1955, Special Marriage Act 1954

Mutual consent

Section 13B, after 1 year of separation

Foreign decrees

Section 13 CPC and Narasimha Rao

Hearings

Video appearance where permitted

NRI divorce: in India or in your country of residence?

Most NRI couples can choose. A court abroad may have jurisdiction because one spouse lives there, and an Indian family court has jurisdiction under section 19 of the Hindu Marriage Act where the marriage was solemnised, where the respondent resides, where the couple last lived together, where a wife petitioner lives, or where the petitioner lives if the respondent is outside India. The choice should turn on where the decree will be needed.

• If either spouse may remarry in India, own property in India, or deal with Indian passport, OCI or succession records, an Indian decree is the safest document.
• If both spouses live in the same foreign country and agree, a foreign decree on consent is generally recognised in India and is often quicker.
• If the spouses disagree and one files abroad on a ground Indian law does not know, the resulting decree may not be recognised in India, leaving one spouse divorced in one country and married in the other.

We often advise on both systems together with the client's lawyer abroad, so that maintenance, property and children are dealt with consistently.

Is my foreign divorce valid in India?

Section 13 of the Code of Civil Procedure makes a foreign judgment conclusive unless it was given by a court without jurisdiction, was not on the merits, refused to recognise Indian law where applicable, breached natural justice, was obtained by fraud, or sustains a claim founded on a breach of Indian law. In Y. Narasimha Rao v. Y. Venkata Lakshmi (1991) the Supreme Court applied this to matrimonial decrees. In short, a foreign decree is recognised where:

A spouse in India served with foreign divorce papers should take advice before deciding whether to participate, because voluntarily submitting to the foreign court can make the decree recognisable. Where doubt exists, a fresh Indian divorce, ideally by consent, removes the risk before either party remarries. Remarrying on a decree that India does not recognise can expose a person to bigamy allegations and later succession disputes. Foreign decrees used in India should carry an apostille or consular attestation; see apostille and attestation.

Mutual consent divorce with one spouse abroad

Under section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act (and section 28 of the Special Marriage Act), spouses who have lived separately for at least one year and agree that the marriage should end file a joint petition. The court records their statements on a first motion and, after a waiting period, on a second motion, then grants the decree.

1. We draft the petition and a settlement covering alimony, stridhan, jointly owned property, children and withdrawal of other cases.
2. The spouse abroad signs the petition and an affidavit before a notary with apostille, or at the Indian mission, and usually gives a power of attorney to a relative or lawyer for filing and procedural steps.
3. The court records each spouse's consent. Consent to divorce is personal, so courts expect to hear it from the spouse directly, by video where the court allows, rather than from the attorney holder alone.
4. After the second motion the decree is drawn up, and a certified copy is sent to you, apostilled if needed abroad.

Practice on video appearance differs between family courts and High Courts, so we check the court concerned before you book travel.

Waiving the six-month cooling-off period

The six months between first and second motion is not mandatory. In Amardeep Singh v. Harveen Kaur (2017) the Supreme Court held that a family court may waive it where the spouses have already been separated for more than a year and a half in total (the statutory year plus the six months), mediation and reconciliation have failed, all issues of alimony and custody are settled, and waiting would only prolong their difficulty. The waiver application can be filed a week after the first motion. The same judgment recognised that courts can use video conferencing in such cases. For couples with one spouse abroad on limited leave, a well-prepared waiver application can bring the whole case into a few weeks.

Separately, in Shilpa Sailesh v. Varun Sreenivasan (2023) a Constitution Bench held that the Supreme Court itself may dissolve a marriage on irretrievable breakdown under Article 142. That power belongs to the Supreme Court, not family courts, and is used sparingly.

Contested divorce when your spouse is in another country

A contested petition must be based on a ground in the statute, such as cruelty, desertion for two years, adultery, conversion or certain mental disorders. Irretrievable breakdown is not a ground available to family courts. When the respondent lives abroad, notice is served through the Hague Service Convention (to which India is a party), through diplomatic channels, or by any substituted method the court allows, such as email. Service abroad adds months, so we start it early.

Contested cases usually run alongside other proceedings: maintenance claims, domestic violence applications, custody petitions and sometimes criminal complaints. A strategy that ignores these can leave the spouse abroad with a divorce but an open criminal case or a travel restriction. Many contested matters are eventually converted into mutual consent after mediation, which courts encourage.

Property, stridhan and money across borders

A divorce settlement between NRIs often involves property in two countries. Indian property is transferred by a registered gift or relinquishment deed, which a spouse abroad can execute through an attorney holder. Alimony paid from an NRO account abroad needs Form 15CA and 15CB, and a lump sum moving into India needs the bank's documentation. Stridhan, the wife's jewellery and gifts, belongs to her and should be listed and returned under the settlement. Writing these steps into the consent terms, with dates, avoids a second dispute after the decree.

Fees, timelines and what to expect

Court fees for divorce petitions are small. Professional fees depend on whether the case is by consent or contested and how many related cases exist; we quote a fixed fee for mutual consent and a stage-wise fee for contested matters. With a cooling-off waiver, an uncontested divorce can conclude within weeks of the first motion; without one, six to eight months is common. Contested divorces commonly take several years.

Documents you need

Scans are enough to begin. Originals of the marriage certificate and photographs may be needed in court later.

• Marriage certificate, or wedding invitation and photographs if unregistered
• Passports, OCI cards and visas of both spouses
• Proof of address abroad and in India
• Evidence of the date of separation
• Details of children, property and any other pending cases
• Draft settlement terms, if agreed
• Any foreign divorce petition or decree, apostilled or attested
• Power of attorney for the person acting in India

How we handle it for you

1. Video consultation

   In your time zone, we work out where to file and what each country will recognise.

2. Settlement and drafting

   Petition, affidavits and a settlement covering money, property and children.

3. Signing abroad

   Signature before a notary with apostille, or at the Indian mission, plus a POA where useful.

4. First motion and waiver

   Statements recorded, by video where permitted, and a waiver application if eligible.

5. Decree and legalisation

   Certified decree obtained and apostilled for use abroad.

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